10 Aug Your Relationship Destiny

My life has become easier, more graceful, more loving, depth of companionship, depth of intimacy like never before. Here is why: When it’s your destiny, and when you are supposed to be somewhere or go through something and have the experience, the right person shows up in your life. The secret my wife Jan and I have figured out a long time ago is that we didn’t need each other to love one another, we needed to love ourselves. 

You are the source of your love. You are the source of your happiness. You. 

The purpose of relationships becomes easier once you understand this. It’s about companionship and intimacy. In my experience, when the companionship and intimacy begin to fall away, the relationship begins to dissolve. The pandemic did so many things. It showed people if they were meant to be together or it showed them that they weren’t. Relationship dynamics will shift and change however, the love that you have inside for yourself and the access you grant yourself to that love will never go away. 

Love doesn’t fit in a box. You can take two people who seemingly are from two different parts of the world and they will find love, and commonality in their relationship because it is their destiny to. And, it’s also their destiny to stay together. 

Love doesn’t look like what you think it looks like because it starts with you. The more you love you, the more somebody can show up to support you and to be there for you. You are only limited as you allow yourself to be. 

Rest in the awareness of your breath for a living meditation.